Ruth Burgess Burleigh: Abolitionist and Poetic Partner to George
Ruth Burgess Burleigh Basics
b. October 1, 1820, Little Compton, Rhode Island
d. March 11, 1909, Providence, Rhode Island
m. George Burleigh (1821-1903), March 17, 1849, Newport, Rhode Island
lived in Rhode Island and Connecticut
I. Early Life and Schooling
A poet, writer, and abolitionist, Ruth Burgess Burleigh was not nearly as visible or well-known as her extended family. Yet her deep devotion to the Burleighs as well as her own family and the causes they supported are clear from the records we do have about this remarkable woman.
Ruth Burgess was born on October 1, 1820, in the small town of Little Compton, Rhode Island. Her parents, Deacon Thomas Burgess and Ruth Richmond, were both widowed when they married in 1820, with her mother having five children from her previous marriage, and Thomas likely having serveral of his own as well. According to Ruth’s daughter-in-law Sarah, the blended family “were very happy together, and held most cordial relations all their lives.”
Ruth was educated starting at the age of three or four at “the old peaked top school-house” in Little Compton, a one room school that seems to have taught students of all ages. She later wrote about her experience there in an essay titled “School Days at the Commons and Peaked Top,” with commentary on her teacher, class activities, and what material students were expected to learn. Some of her memories include that:
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When she first started at the school, the teacher “only required me to “say my letters” four times a day. An incident connected with this branch of my education, which I was too young to remember has been often repeated by my elder sisters. It seems that I was held rigidly to my daily duty at the alphabet. One day I could not remember the name of a letter which Miss Betsey was confident that I had once learned. As I failed to recall it she threatened to hang me up to the pole, and was proceeding to take off her long, knit garter for a noose when something intervened to prevent the execution. Perhaps the terrible emergency inspired one to recollection.
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Reading, writing and spelling were the only sciences taught in the summer school at that time, I think.
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The “reading books” followed the primer in a remarkable order. The “New Testament” came first the “English Reader,” which was followed by a “Sequel.” Why the “Testament” should have succeeded the primer as the first “reading book,” is a mystery, as there are more unfamiliar words, and more words difficult of pronunciation in that look than in any other class-book used in school.
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The only trial within my recollection under Miss Betsey’s rule, was in learning to sew patchwork “over and over.” After much painstaking effort, and some pride in the very seam resulting therefrom it was hard to have ones work recognized by Miss Betsey – to be told that it was “all fused up to a leetle” “stitches a ridin over one another” – and then to be obliged to work longer in picking out these stitches, than in toiling to put them in.
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I remember no difficulties with lessons, only that “Murray’s Grammar,” and “Daboll’s Arithmetic,” were utterly incomprehensible to me, and were never explained. I did not know why we “carried one for every ten,” in “doing our sums” until I had “ciphered” for years.
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After [the resignation of one disliked schoolmaster] came better teachers and improved text-books. We discovered the meaning of our lessons, and learned that our teachers could be our friends.
Although there is little information available about Ruth's early life, this essay in particular provides remarkable insight into her education and early childhood. According to her daughter-in-law Sarah, she later "attended the Select School established by Deacon Isaac Richmond (a cousin of her mother’s) in a building next his own home on South of the Commons Road." Unfortunately, there is very little surviving documentation about this school.
II. The Burgess Family
While Ruth's marriage to George certainly would have exposed her to the family's political and activist sentiments, these causes would not have been new to her. The Burgess family, particuarly Ruth's father Thomas, were also staunch anti-slavery advocates. Like much of Ruth's life, her family's activities are much less documented than that of her in-laws, but there is historical evidence that suggests the Burgess home in Little Compton was an Underground Railroad stop. If this is true it demonstrates that Thomas Burgess was committed to anti-slavery not just through words, but was also directly taking action in fighting against the practice. Additionally, the Burgess family opening thier home to escaped slaves might have put a young Ruth in direct contact with individuals who had suffered the horrors of slavery firsthand; no doubt increasing her individual sentiments against it. At the very least, the Burgess family's commitment to anti-slavery was instilled in Ruth prior to her marriage to George.
Another example of the Burgess family's commitment to anti-slavery comes from an 1843 "come-outer" incident in Little Compton. The come-outer movement was a form of political activism in which members of an established organization such as a church would leave that institution in protest of their views. The term was originally used to described Christians who left their churches due to opposing views on slavery.
This was the case in Little Compton, when in 1843 Deacon Thomas Burgess led sixteen members of the Congregational Church of Little Compton in "coming out." The inciting in this case was when the Rev. Alfred Goldsmith refused to preach against anti-slavery. Records suggest that in addition to Thomas leaving the congregation, Ruth was one of the sixteen members who seceeded as well; she would have been 22 or 23 at the time, and several years away from meeting her future husband. The seceding members formed their own Congregational Church and passed a resolution against enslavement, but rejoined their former institution after Rev. Goldsmith resigned under pressure. This incident might have demonstrated to Ruth the value of political activism, but also demonstrates her own family's commitment to ending slavery.
Thomas Burgess unfortunately passed away in 1845, two years after the come-outer event and four years before George and Ruth met. One can only assume, however, that he would have approved of Ruth's marriage to someone as staunchly committed to anti-slavery ideals as he had been, and proud of her lifelong commitment to social equality.
III. Marriage to George and Relationship with the Burleighs
talking about marriage/family, letters with the other burleighs that suggest their closeness
With George and Ruth's similar interests in literature and devotion to reform causes, its no wonder the two hit it off. According to Minnie Spies' 1934 thesis on George, the two met in 1849 while George wsa lecturing in Little Compton. However, Spies also states that "Her father, Thomas Burgess, who was the representative of the underground railway system there, entertained the young abolitionist there" – a fact that cannot be true given the substantial historical records suggesting that Thomas died in 1845. Regardless of the specifics of their meeting, however, George and Ruth married on March 17, 1849, when he was 27 and she was 28. Spies' thesis states that the two moved to Plainfield, CT after marriage, although they also lived in Little Compton and Providence RI at other points during their marriage.
According to the 1850 census, which was taken on July 27, 1850, George and Ruth were living in Plainfield at that time with their daughter Lillian, whose age was given as two months old. Unfortunately, records about Lillian are very scant, as she passed as an infant. Spies listed her death as taking place in July 1852, and Lydia Burleigh speaks of wanting to see her in a letter to Ruth written in Feburary of that year. Likely, Lillie died sometime in either 1852 or 1853, a loss that is certainly reflected in George's writings, and likely had a profound affect on the whole family.
The couple had only one other child, a son Sydney Richmond Burleigh, who was born on July 6 or 7, 1853. Sydney became an artist of some note in Rhode Island.
In addition to her immediate family, letters between Ruth and different members of the Burleigh family shows a closeness between them.
IV. Poetry and Writings
Throughout her entire life, Ruth maintained a strong interest in literature as both a reader and a writer. According to her daughter-in-law Sarah, she was a member of a Literary Society in Little Compton prior to her marriage, and also "one of the founders of the Library that for years supplied reading matter to the country farms." Later, when she and George were living in New York City, she was an early member of the woman's club Sorosis, a professional group that was interested in art, literature, science and other related fields. An article from The Revolution, a newspaper founded by Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony, even reported in March 1871 that one of Ruth's own poems was read at a Sorosis meeting; speaking to her involvement with the group as well as her own literary talent. The John Hay Library at Brown University also has a copy of a letter Ruth sent to the group from Little Compton, which speaks to some of her interests and beliefs regarding women's equality:
To Sorosis –
It is with a little feeling of shyness that I step aside from my busy home-life to come before an association of women so nobly gifted and so highly cultivated as Sorosis.
But fancying myself partly concealed by the veil of invisibility in which one may appear, when making a speech through the pen, I take courage to show my interest in your proceedings, and my desire for your success, in the only way practicable for me.
In my little “cottage by the sea”, I have found it pleasant to be associated in name, with a society of women who can be great enough to forget all small personal vanities and ambitions, that they may work advantageously together, for the improvement of our sex in art and science.
From my earliest consciousness I was a lover of Beauty, and in the days of my youth I was ready to bow my soul in adoration, to the artist, and follow in the footsteps of Science, whithersoever she might lead me. Untoward circumstances impeded my progress in science, and though they could not conquer that love of the beautiful which was implanted in my nature, they, yet, hindered its expression.
Therefore, I hailed with delight the formation of a society of women banded together to help each other, in the attainment of their aspirations towards Beauty and Wisdom.
Women, in the walks of science and art, need every aid which they can render to each other, the more, because these paths are made harder for them than for men, by the very laws and customs which have made our feet more tender.
But, if we are only loyal to each other and to our own highest ideals, we may walk right royally over every obstacle which folly and ignorance have placed in the way of our progress.
We want more liberal views[?], higher aims, a stricter loyalty to each other and to the highest, largest truth which we are able to recognize; and, to this end we want freedom.
It is a well recognized fact, in the philosophy of Governments, that a subject nation can make little or no progress in the higher branches of art and science. Is not this a significant fact, which woman would do well to consider?
If we were enfranchised from those legal, political, and social disabilities, under which we lie today, what might we not be and achieve?
How many of us feel these burdens repressing our aspirations, hindering our full development, and shaming our bright ideals!
It is true, that, were these disabilities of law and custom removed, circumstances would not permit us all to follow a career of art or science, technically so called. Nor is this desirable for, or desired by, all. But these might of allow such a career who were fitted for it by nature.
Years have taught me to separate the artist from his work. Genius is an inspiration of the gods, who lift the sculptor, the painter, or the poet, up from the sphere of poor human frailty for a time, while they use his hands to fashion some beneficient “thing of beauty” to bestow upon the world. This accomplished, the artist too often falls back, even below common living. Alas, that doing divine work should ot make man divine! — that an artist may give a sublime ideal to the world and fail to live it! A noble and harmonious life is a constant exponent of the divine within us, and one may, perhaps, fashion, of his own nature a work of more beauty and more beneficent to the world, than sculptor’s chisel poet’s pen, or painter’s brush has ever accomplished, and in any circumstances the inner life may become beautiful if permeated by a noble thought. But for a full development of all the faculties of our being, and the accomplishment of our best doing we need above all things else, freedom. It is said that woman will always be enslaved by her affections. Why should this be? We would not lose a tithe of that power of loving in the bestowal of which God has honored us beyond the stronger sex. He has denied to them the boon of Motherhood. [sic]
But our love should not be a blind idolatry — the slavish love of a dog for its master, or the unreasoning instinct of a hen, which leads her to protect and cherish her brood. Toward her husband, it should be the intelligent love of a human being for an equal, and toward her children, a protecting, helpful, but sensible affection. Such love is no slavery.
Is there any reason why self-sacrifice should be considered a virtue to be required of woman only.
But any woman will say that it requires more heroism to live out her convictions of right, and follow her highest ideal, than any amount of self-sacrifice can call for.
If we can but learn to respect ourselves as simple human beings, and if we may but be allowed to live out our whole true natures, under no restrictions but such as God and Nature have set for our limits, our lives shall be nobler, and the world shall be better for our living.
Yours for this higher life,
R.B. Burleigh
At the end of her life, Sarah reported that Ruth's "memory failed but never for books, and when lying helpless in the dark would with her attendant repeat passages from Her favorites of Dickens." Sarah paints here a sad picture of Ruth's final days, but also of the clear importance literature and writing held for her through the end of her life.
In addition to a love of reading, Ruth was also an acomplished author of poems and short stories. She never achieved the literary fame of her husband, but some of her works were published in newspapers, and many handwritten copies of her writings were preserved in scrapbooks by Sarah.
Much of Ruth's writings focused on the world around her. The two short stories we have of hers, "Pussy's door-bell" and "Elsie's Sacrifice," both center around slightly fantastical yet believeable scenarios: a cat who taught himself to use a vine as a doorbell, and a girl who gave her favorite doll as an offering to God in order to summon a much-needed rainstorm. It's not clear if she wrote either of these stories based on personal experiences or tales she heard, but both feel like situations that could have happened in the world of Little Compton or Providence.
Ruth's surviving poetry, meanwhile, focuses on themes such as love, tribute, and activism. One untitled poem preserved by Sarah is signed "your Valentine," and includes a note that it was written from Ruth to her son, Sidney. Sarah also saved a large sheet with three separate poems on it; one uncredited, and one each by George and Ruth. The three works all appear to be a tribute to a Little Compton woman named Lydia, and its collaborative nature speaks to the intellectual bond that George and Ruth shared. Ruth also penned a tribute to Edgar Allan Poe in 1874, and another work titled "Ave Maria" in the 1850s that also reads as an ode to someone who has passed.
One of Ruth's most impressive works, however, is a poem titled "Woman," which was published in at least two newspapers. This piece focuses on the right of women "to stand, a peer, among the noblemen of earth," and states that women of the world will no longer see themselves as lesser than men. This work hints at another cause Ruth was deeply intersted in advancing - women's rights - and its publication speaks not only to its literary merit but also to how the sentiments she expressed in it were shared by her peers.
Some of Ruth's poems
Ruth Burleigh (George’s wife) notes HA 1177-1181 - unedited, from George S. Burleigh collection at John Hay Library, Brown University
Poem “Ave Maria” dated Sept 11, 1859 (might be 1851)
Ave Maria.
The valley’s Lily, in thy form we see;
So purely sweet, so delicately fair,
We only know by the soft, odorous air
Thou dwellest in, what heart is hiding there.
Nor hiding long, o’ertopped as thou mayst be,
Sweet One! Though nestling silent in the shade
Of the great tree of Life, whose boughs are swayed
By every wind of Heaven, be not afraid,
Thou needs’t no speech – thy breath [indecipherable] thee
The tiniest cup, when filled with Go’d great love.
Is inexhaustible as deepest wells;
And we may drink from little lily-bells
Or all our thirst, since every drop that sweels
Their honied urn, is powred from ceasless founts Above.
Sept. 11, 1859
Ruth
Handwritten Poem by Ruth Burgess Burleigh, “A free translation of the Sonnet of P. M.”
Where light immoral shows his visits.
The poet’s soul uplifts the age with
This startled age now the poets wrong.
Whom death exalts to heights where all may see
The writhing hydra, once, an angel heard
In form with purity his horde’s evil [?] speeches
So men hear now, by some strange magic reach
A flood of unknown music through his word.
O grief! That hateful (?) finds both sky and earth
If I carve not my thought to Poe’s high worth,
Wherewith to armament his glorious tomb!
Gray block brought for the forage from thy dark cave
Mark those their bound and smile with righteous doom
The villain [indecipherable] that round thee curse and rave.
R.B.B.
Edgar Allan Poe d. in 1849
Ruth Burgess Burleigh, Consolation. Hand-written poem
Consolation.
Be sure that they who had their life from thine
Still hold the cord, invisible and fine
That binds you each to each “beyond the veil.”
The ebb and flow of Life can never fail,
But pulsing, through Eternity, in time,
All loving hearts – or here – or there shall rhyme.
And if, on Earth, at times, our weary feet,
Seem slow and heavy in our haste to meet
Our loved ones, “gone before,” we yet may know,
The goal is sure and bright, to which we go.

References
- UCC Little Compton IN Profile 11-2023.pdf
- Petition for Repeal of the Fugitive Slave Law from the “colored citizens” of Newport | EnCompass
- little compton - school days essay
- little compton - poetry book
- 1850 census
- spies' thesis